Luckily, KJMcE, not all Scorpio women. 🙂 I have a Scorpio rising, and I consider myself therefore in the Scorpio women category. I’m delighted to be your friend and nothing more. :yahoo:
My point is thankfully not all people of a particular Sun or Moon or rising sign will ever be the same as all others in that category (said for those who don’t know: I trust you do). my point is also that there are Scorpio women–myself included–who you’ll probably find who are very comfortable with being your friend and want nothing more than that from you.
You might consider the role your own chart plays in this mix as to what creates the setting you’ve described though.
Just a thought… 🙂